Two days ago, the entire Internet was scanning a picture, and the original Japanese artist thought that he had been violently abused by the Internet, and turned off social comments.
The story originated from a boy posting.
He has a monthly salary of 5,000, an ordinary family, and his girlfriend has a monthly salary of 3,000. The two have been in love for 8 years since college.
In a dilemma, his sister sent a message saying that his parents had sold his only house for 1.5 million and were preparing to buy him a new house for marriage.
Later, the poster became scared and admitted that it was a late-night story meeting.
But because the story is full of details (the bank card record is posted), and the elements are too many (the sky-high price gift, patriarchy, anxiety about marriage age, licking the dog can't house), it accurately stepped on the angry points of men and women.
Many people have substituted themselves, calling this the reality:
Sister Sang couldn't help but vomit. When I usually speak out for women's injustices, there are often a bunch of men who come up to the line and say you don't create confrontations between men and women.
The person who composes the story, if not personally experienced, is a master, because even the woman's birthplace is set in Jiangxi, and he has taken careful consideration.
Because Jiangxi is very representative, it is one of the best places in our country for the price of gifts.
I am not from Jiangxi, so I investigated the price of bride price in various parts of Jiangxi and found that the customs are different in ten miles.
It may be possible to get 80 to 10 million in the urban area of Nanchang. If you drive 200 kilometers outside, you have to double it.
Ganzhou can make a family with 180,000 to 200,000 yuan, but it is difficult to marry a wife and have children for 200,000 yuan in the surrounding 18 counties and cities.
In Yudu and Leping, there is also a gift package of 300,000 gift gold + one catty of gold + one catty of platinum + ten catties of silver.
Because women of childbearing age have become a rare and precious reproductive resource.
Some people think that 200,000 is too expensive to get married, and those who think 200,000 are not too expensive can get married, and those who can afford 300,000 can jump in the line to get married.
Many girls' beauties don't even fall into their own pockets, so they have to be handed over to their parents and used to pay their brothers and brothers.
Before asking why, ask if it is.
In the sixth national census, the fertility rate dropped from 6-7 in the early days of the founding of the People’s Republic of China to 1.5 all the way.
There are fewer and fewer people, but the sex ratio at birth has soared from 103 to 104 to 121.21.
And how much is Jiangxi?
Source: National Bureau of Statistics of the Sixth Population Census 6-1 Population by sex and birth order (2009.11.1-2010.10.31)
For every 100 girls, there are 128 boys. Considering the backward compatibility of age and the diversion of other provinces and cities, there are more than 28.
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Post-00s are the generation that is about to enter the marriageable age, and the gender is the first place than Jiangxi, followed by Henan.
In the past few years, the bad effects of the sex ratio in Henan have gradually emerged, and the bride price has risen. It used to cost tens of thousands of yuan, but now it costs more than 100,000 to 200,000.
Because girls of school age are really "not enough points".
This kind of vice has existed since ancient times. Although the sex ratio has improved under the intervention of the state in recent years, the legacy still exists in poor areas.
Emperor Qianlong said in the 57th year of Qianlong (1792):
Drowning in Jiangxi is the most cruel.
In the Qing dynasty Jiangxi'an Fu Ren, Tongzhi four-year Jinshi, and Hanlin Academy review, Wang Bangxi stated in his memorial "Replenishment of Parental Care":
int和Qing dynasty Jiang西安fur恩, tong治four-year jin是, and Han林academy review, Wang bang系state din his memorial "replenishment of parental care":
The bad habits of female drowning in all provinces, but Jiangxi is the most;
This wind is found in all direct provinces, Fujian is more, but Jiangxi is especially strong.
In the 16th year of Shunzhi reign of the Qing Dynasty, the imperial censor of zuodu, Wei people, wrote in a memorial
There is a lot of drowning in Fujian, Jiangnan, Jiangxi and other places.
Who can you blame? Blame the girls who survived?
When the civil affairs department issued a document to rectify the high-priced betrothal gifts, and when Shangqiu, who had high-priced betrothal gifts, issued documents to limit and refund the betrothal gifts, boy families should not be too busy to be happy.
The bride price only exists in the bottom man, because this man really can't see what resources and advantages can be provided to the family, he will be asked to "buy out" at a price.
But for any man who can see long-term gains, his mother-in-law will never be bitten to death at the bride price for fear that he will run away.
Rural girls are more willing to marry in counties and cities. Some girls may choose to "prefer to be a concubine in the public office than to be a poor man's wife". A rising class can completely replace the beauties.
The smarter girl works hard to study, preferring to stay in the big city 996, alone, and it is impossible to return to her hometown to marry.
Because big cities have social resources that cannot be replaced by bridesmaids.
Therefore, the last male answerer of Zhihu shouted out angrily: If you want equal rights, please cancel the betrothal first!
The following boy quickly persuades him not to say silly things:
When the men talked about the bride price, they became angry, as if the woman was the culprit for the expensive bride price.
If you are in the native family, you are the one who enjoys the sister’s rights to life, inheritance, property, and fair education, then you have no right to criticize the sky-high price gift.
You are just paying for each other's sisters.
A spectacle appeared below the post of the 500,000 gift.
Ninety percent of men lined up and shouted, "Will you die if you don't get married?" The other 10% of men clamored to drive a dump truck to kill this licking dog.
Dude, make up your mind to overcome all difficulties, not to get married in this life, to consume the women who want the bride price, and let them die alone!
Welcome to follow my trumpet:
Sister Sang Sang (yaocenli)